Monday, 22 January 2018

Beauty for ashes



January 22nd 2018 – I am sitting inside with multiple layers of clothing on and a warm cup of coffee, looking outside at the snow covered ground.  What a contrast to the last three months I spent in Uganda, where I was permanently dripping in sweat and covered in dust, guzzling down cold water by the litre!



It has been such a blessing having time these last few months to spend with family and friends, catch up on mundane things such as doctor and dentist appointments, reflect and feedback on my last trip and prepare for my upcoming trip in February...




Whilst my September to December trip had many challenges, it also had numerous blessings and I am so grateful for my recent trip.  I learnt much during this trip.  When I am away I generally don’t process very much. I just GO, GO, GO! But now that I am home I can reflect a little bit more.




Last night I was just thinking and preparing a Children’s Talk for this coming Sunday for our friends’ church.  I was reminded of the verses in Isaiah 61, which talk about God bringing beauty out of ashes.  I met and came to love numerous individuals during my last trip that are a testimony to this – they have been in broken places, been in the ashes and God is making their stories into something truly beautiful.  Many of them are still in the ‘ashes’, but we have hope that God will use their pain to write a beautiful story.  I honestly believe this is true for all of us too, God can use our pain, brokenness and tragedies to do beautiful things.  So if you are in the ‘ashes’ just now please be encouraged!




Regarding my upcoming trip – February through to May – I just want to update you on a few things as many new doors have been opened up.  During my last trip I had the honour of visiting a lovely American Lady called Kathy Houk.  She has been in Uganda for some time and has set up an organisation known as Desana Giving.  Desana is the name of an Amazonian tribe.  Their core belief is to pass on blessings and bless others.  Similarly, the work of this organisation is all about blessing others, so they can pass on blessings in turn and keep the blessings flowing!  The work that she does is very similar to the work I have been involved with previously – namely rescuing and rehabilitating street children, amongst many other things!  I could not have been more welcomed when I went to visit her shelter for ex-street boys.  The work she does is similar to the work of RUHU, but on a much smaller scale.  The maximum number of children that she has at any one time is 25.  The children stay at the shelter for a maximum of three months, where they receive love, food, education, counselling, Bible teaching...and so much more.  After the three months the social workers then work to resettle these children with their families.  Where this is not possible a permanent foster family will be found to look after the child.  I was so impressed by the work of Desana Giving and I am blessed to be returning to volunteer with them in February.  I will of course visit the children of RUHU, because I have come to know and love them dearly over the years, but I will not be volunteering with them this time.  I am not sure what the next three months will look like...I hope to do some teaching at the shelter, namely in Geography and Science (I have been busy downloading, cutting and laminating in anticipation!), I also hope to use some more of the Trauma Healing resources with the children...and generally just help Kathy out with whatever needs done!  




I will keep you updated on my blog - the address is still the same because I didn’t want to lose all my previous posts, but it’s actually Ruth at Desana, rather than RUHU!




 ruthatruhu.blogspot.co.uk




If you would like to read a little bit more about Kathy’s organisation – Desana Giving – please do so at desanagiving.org




Finally, after this lengthy post I would like to thank everyone for their love, support, prayers and their financial gifts – If it wasn’t for your love I wouldn’t be able to do all of this.  I am no one special, I am just doing my bit and your role is just as important as mine, if not more so at times!




So when I say ‘Thank you’, I truly do mean it.


Much love, Ruthie x
What a blessing to meet the wonderful Kathy Houk!

Lwanga Davis - a beautiful testimony of Beauty for Ashes!

What a blessing to spend time with family over Christmas!


                                

Sunday, 10 December 2017

Final update for this trip - Sun 10th Dec

Quick update before I leave Uganda on Tuesday...
Firstly I want to thank everyone for their love, support and prayers during these last three months.
I am so thankful that I have been kept safe and well.
It is always bitter sweet saying goodbye...I am so excited to see my family but will be sad to say goodbye to all the children. The tears have started already...but will be followed by happy ones as I am reunited with my lovely family...God willing on Wednesday morning, if flights go according to plan
I don't feel like writing much so let me just leave you with some photos...
Thanks again for all the love and prayers. . . Love from Ruth xxx 











Update and prayer request Sat 9th Dec

Please pray for this precious little boy Shaban...I just found him in the slums this morning (Sat 9 Dec). His foot had been run over by a taxi/mini bus. He has been admitted to clinic and will stay there for a month. What breaks my heart more than the foot, is that he is all alone. Please pray for him. I apologise for the grotty photo....but this is the reality of street life. 


Saturday, 2 December 2017

And the photos...










A quick wee update...




Just a quick wee update this week, as I am running about as much as ever trying to fit things in before I come home...

Last night I had a meal with the sponsor ‘boys’ for two of my friends from back home.  They were very appreciative of their ‘last supper’ and we enjoyed our time together.  I am so thankful for them – they always make me laugh! Please pray for Moses and Kennedy though as they face some challenges. 

I had the opportunity on Thursday to go with one of my Ugandan friends, Betty, to visit her family.  This was such a blessing and we have many funny stories to tell from this day...including being asked by a complete stranger in the taxi about my bowel movements!

I enjoyed visiting Zalika at her home this week to do some English with her, though finding her house is always a challenge.  Every time I get lost. They live next to the swamp but every time I take a wrong turning and nearly end up in the swamp!

I continue to love my little healing hearts group.  I will be sorry to say goodbye to them as we have become close.  I am so thankful for the wonderful material that I have been using and just pray it is touching their lives in small ways. 

I continue to frequent the dentist and the clinics – I think they may go bankrupt when I come home!

Please continue to remember Dennis in the slums.  We spent some time together on Wednesday.  I am pursuing a different organisation currently, one which Dennis feels more comfortable with, to see if there are any openings and opportunities with them.  Dennis said to me on Wednesday that he felt in his heart that next year, 2018, was going to be a year of change.  Let’s pray this comes to pass.

I had the pleasure of visiting a lovely American lady yesterday and seeing some of the work that she is involved in.  She has a small shelter for street boys in a nearby town.  She asked me to prepare a wee lesson on Scotland for the boys, so I went all out and put my tartan leggings on!  The concept of kilts caused much hilarity!  It was such an encouraging and refreshing visit.     

Today’s activities have included; killing a cockroach using a child’s shoe, transferring a rabbit from A to B (holding it by the ears) and a marriage proposal from a random Boda driver...every day holds something new!

Thanks for your love, support and prayers x

Friday, 24 November 2017

Photos...

One of our P7 boys - Francis

Look who is at my window!

Little baby David

Baby Eva

Dennis

Police - the guard dog for one of our kids

Sara after healing hearts

David and Dennis...in the slums

Silly faces

Baby Purpose





It's raining, it's pouring!



It has been pouring continuously all morning, which has forced me to have a quiet morning – for which I am very thankful.  It also gives me some time to update you lovely people.  Hope you are all well.  Going to type fast, as power is off and I don’t want my laptop to die on me!
Last Thursday a precious little bundle, nicknamed ‘Baby Purpose’ came to visit us at RUHU.  This little baby boy had been abandoned in the slums and a certain lady, Aunty Emmy, had taken him in, but was looking to RUHU for assistance and support.  Uncle Patrick was out of the country last week and being merely a volunteer I am not in a position to make important decisions.  I tried to determine whether this lady wanted us to take the baby from her and care for him or whether she wanted to remain with the baby, but with the support of RUHU.  I was able to recommend a certain babies home where I have previously volunteered, but she was keen to remain with the baby.  I admire this, because this lady has very little in order to support Baby Purpose, but her hearts seems to be big and open!  I was able to help meet their immediate needs by providing nappies and formula milk but let’s pray for this little baby’s future and the years that lie ahead.  I love how Aunty Emmy has named him ‘Purpose’ – God has a purpose and a plan for this little baby, despite his awful start in life.  

My Aunt and Uncle’s sponsor girl, Brendah, finished her S4 exams last Friday. She is sponsored through a different organisation, but I always make time to see her and enjoy our time together – she is a sweet girl.  To celebrate this massive achievement of finishing S4 I took her out for dinner and she thoroughly enjoyed her chicken and chips, milkshake and cake!  It was an added bonus because she was able to speak to my aunty, her sponsor, courtesy of Cafe Javas’ wifi.  I don’t know who was more excited, my aunty or Brendah – possibly my Aunty Avril!  Technology can be such a blessing.

Please continue to pray for Dennis, in the slums.  I sat with him, squatting in the dust, sheltering from the sunshine for a long time on Tuesday afternoon...just chatting.  I am so thankful for one of our P7 Boys, David, who escorted me and doubled up as my translator and body guard.  We talked for a long time with Dennis about the opportunities that Retrack have provided – sadly he hasn’t returned to their centre since we went together last week.  He seems really scared.  He doesn’t know if he can trust these people.  Obviously in the past he has had his trust abused and therefore he finds it hard to trust people.  I empathised with him and said it is incredibly hard to know who you can trust – I have certainly been disappointed time and time again during this trip, when it comes to trust.  Please pray for Dennis.  He seems to want change in his life, but is scared...

On Wednesday I had the opportunity to visit the slums and see the work of a different organisation amongst the children.  This was very refreshing and encouraging. 

Yesterday I experienced my first ever American Thanksgiving meal, here in Uganda.  My lovely American friend, Becca invited me to her home and we shared a lovely time together.  I am so thankful for her.

In other news...I managed to change a light bulb this week for the first time ever in my life.  It was not an easy task, as the ceiling is very high.  Picture the scene...I am balanced on a broken chair, whilst Lillian, the girl I stay with, holds the chair secure...it is dark, so I am depending on my head torch...I am so rubbish when it comes to heights that I start to feel dizzy...takes me forever to remove the old light bulb...the light bulbs here seem to be a different shape and structure...I eventually insert the new light bulb and think it is secure so I let go...it’s not...it falls to the ground and smashes...I jump off my chair covering my head..off I go back to the corner shop to purchase a new light bulb...whilst I am waiting in line a small boy comes running back to the shop keeper and says, ‘I dropped my spaghetti!’ She instructs him to go and collect his dust covered spaghetti from the middle of the road and bring it back.  She dusts it down and puts it in a new bag and sends him off...then I start my game of charades to demonstrate that I need a new light bulb...there is much hilarity...I decide that if I don’t manage the second time I will call a randomer to assist us...but we managed...praise the Lord!  Who thought changing a light bulb could be such a saga!
There is never a dull moment!

Thanks as always for your love, support and prayers xxx