Thursday, 5 April 2018

Good evening from Kampala, from me and my dog!



Good evening from Kampala. I hope this email finds you all well and that you had a nice Easter.

I am currently sitting outside my little house and Liddy the guard dog is cuddled up under my chair.  She is probably miffed that I am sitting on the chair and that she isn’t!  The other day I came back to find her lying on the chair outside my house sunbathing.  She is a wee cutie...but it’s ok Harley, don’t worry I won’t bring her home!

Last Saturday I had a nice day visiting my friend Sharron and her family, in the village, close to the Tanzanian border.  It was lovely to see them all again.  They couldn’t be more hospitable and welcoming.  The amount of gifts they gave me is always slightly embarrassing, but at the same time so sweet and humbling that people with little can be so generous.  I came home with handmade mats, baskets and decorations, sugar cane, passion fruits, eggs and bananas...Thank you so much to all of you who kindly give towards Sharron’s brothers’ school fees.  Shadrach and Shafic are both enjoying school and are incredibly thankful.  Thank you also to Uncle Jim who kindly gave towards Shafic’s eye operation.  He has undergone three operations now, following an accident at school involving a fork!  But we praise God that he did not lose his eye and is no longer in pain.  Had you all been here, I would have shared my fruits and eggs with you, as a thank you.  Watch out though – baskets may be coming your way!

It would appear that Easter celebrations are quite big here in Uganda.  Everyone kept asking me how I was going to celebrate my day.  I was blessed to visit Mama Sara and her family.  I talked a lot about this family during my last trip.  They were the family who lost their father, just after he was released from prison.  Two of the girls were in my healing hearts group and the mama attends the savings group.  It was lovely to be able to treat them to some cake, soda and ice cream.  I don’t think I have ever seen such a small child consume so much ice cream.  Baby Shuchran just kept eating and eating and eating.  It was lovely to get some smiles from him on Easter Sunday.  This was a first.  He used to always fear me – the muzungo.

YWAM Kampala has been so incredibly kind and welcoming towards me.  It is such a blessing.  On Tuesday I went with them to Katwe Slum to do outreach. I have taken a long time without going in the slums and I have been missing it so much.   Katwe slum is not my usual slum but I was soooo blessed to meet children that I know from Kisenyi slum.  Upon reaching the area for the outreach, Simon, a boy who I have known for years, came running up to me, calling ‘Auntie Ruth’.  I love this boy so much, so it was good to know that he is alive and smiling, despite all his difficulties! The youth that we met with and spoke with were incredibly open.  It was a privilege to spend time with them and pray for them.  Katwe is different from Kisenyi, many of the issues and challenges are the same...but there are also differences.  I was struck by the number of young girls/teenagers that were around and engaged with us.  I even had the privilege of crawling – yes I literally had to crawl! - into a make shift shack to pray with two young prostitutes that were exhausted after their night’s work.  I could do little for these girls and the reality is heartbreaking...but I was able to encourage them that they are special and loved.  Let’s pray that sticks with them – Mary and Mercy.  Is strange to think these girls are so much younger than me, yet have experienced far far more of life and its pain.
I was also able to join YWAM again this morning for an outreach program in a local school.  ‘Guess How Much I Love you’ was shared again, as I tried to explain to the children how special and loved they are.  I was mortified after my part, when one of the team members from India said...’You can tell you are a teacher.’  I honestly don’t think I am that ‘teachery’, I am not sure I ever ‘mastered’ it – but they seemed to think so – bless them.  

The local school continue to be so lovely and welcoming.  The children enjoyed listening to Rod Campbell’s story, Dear Zoo, this week.  Next week we are going to be making lion masks.  I am not sure if this is a good idea or not with 40 odd primary ones, but time will tell!

Yesterday was a really significant day.  I went to the village with Uncle David from African Hearts Community Organisation, to pick up Dennis.  I talked about Dennis a lot during my last trip.  He was the boy in the slums that I was championing.  The one who said he wanted 2018 to be the year of change.  Around January he had been resettled in the village with his family.  But the village is remote and he was idle.  The fear was that he would return to the streets if we didn’t find something meaningful and purposeful for him to do.  I praise God that we were able to bring him back to Kampala yesterday to start an apprenticeship in welding.  In many ways this is just the start of his journey.  Please pray for him.  Let’s also pray for his mentor/trainer, that he would treat Dennis well and do the things he has agreed to do – it’s hard to know who you can trust!  When I told Dennis that people back home were praying for him and had offered to help me support him financially, he was incredibly thankful and said to pass on his thanks and his greetings – so thank you.  

I am continuing on with my Luganda lessons but it is tough going.  Today I was learning about ‘exceptions to the rule’ – why have rules when you have so many exceptions – not sure I will ever grasp it!?  However on the way home from my lesson I stopped at the local shop and was encouraged greatly.  They were so impressed by my Luganda, one lady even told me (in English I might add) that my Luganda was better than hers.  I responded in Luganda –‘Oh goodness, you are lying!’   To which she responded, ‘I am not lying, I come from a different part of Uganda and I don’t know Luganda well’.  We laughed together.  How ironic is that – to be told by a Ugandan that your Luganda is better than theirs!  

Am blogging tonight rather than tomorrow, as I am off to the village with Isaac, his wife and the children to visit their Jjajja (grandmother).  Let’s pray the village is not as wet as it was yesterday.  I have to say it was like an extreme sport on the boda yesterday on the muddy roads.  At least I got to practice my Luganda though as I told the driver to go slowly, as I feared falling down – “Mpaula mpaula Sebo, ntya!”

Thank you once again for everything.  Much love xxx

Tuesday, 3 April 2018

This week's photos

 My friend Beatrice made me a bag
 Another Beatrice drew a butterfly
 Class busy at work drawing butterflies
 Happy Easter from me and Moses
 Issac (my boda driver's) family
 Issac's wee boy
 Lunchtime at babies home
 Lwanga Davis - my sponsor boy
My braided hair

Friday, 30 March 2018

What have I been up to since I last blogged?



-          My Ugandan friend, Betty, came over and very kindly braided my hair whilst we chatted and caught up. I think I lasted for about one hour and then I had to remove them, as my head felt like it was going to explode!  I don’t know how these Ugandan ladies do it? I think I will leave the hair braiding to them!

-          I visited a local government school a few times this week to volunteer.  Some of the classes have well over 100 pupils.  I asked one of the teachers how many jotters she marked on an average day.  She said sometimes 400!  Can you imagine?!  No wonder she was happy when I offered to help her mark during lunch and at the end of the day.  Her comment was, ‘God obviously  remembered me today, when he sent you to help me with these books.’  Bless her.  The staff have been so welcoming to me.  The class of 40 odd P1s enjoyed The Very Hungry Caterpillar this week, along with some colouring in – which was a novelty.  The school are also open to me doing some trauma healing with small groups of kids, which is a blessing.

-           A trip to Butabika Mental Hospital with Fred. He is making progress so we praise God for that.  He is testing my patience however, so please pray I would be loving and kind.  I felt like such a grump and a nag with him on Tuesday.  Pray I would get the balance between being firm but loving.
-          I have enjoyed visiting and helping out in small ways at my friend’s English classes for the South Sudanese Refugees.  The ladies are so funny.  They have little English but enough to enquire as to whether I was married or not!  When I replied no, one of the ladies said she ‘would get for me a husband from her country’. She then went on to say, her husband could marry me and I could be his second wife.  I replied....’No, no....it should be one, one!’  They laughed and laughed.  I pray in the short time that I have left I would be able to witness to these ladies and show them love, despite the language barriers.

-          I had a meeting with YWAM Kampala about potential opportunities to volunteer and minister with them in Katwe – the largest slum in Kampala (as in The Queen of Katwe).  They were so willing and welcoming.  I will visit Katwe with them this coming week.  

-          I had a meeting with African Hearts regarding Dennis (the boy I worked closely with in the slums, during my last trip).  All being well we will pick him up from his home on Wednesday and he will start his welding apprenticeship.  He said he wanted this year to be the year of change.  Let’s pray this comes to pass.  This is coming at a cost – training, accommodation, food, transport etc – so thank you so much to those of you who gave to me so generously prior to my trip.  Your money will help contribute to this venture.   I can’t thank you enough! 

-          I took my mum and dad’s sponsor boy, who is like 22 years old, to get a typhoid immunisation today.  It was the funniest thing ever.  It would appear that they don’t commonly immunise adults in Uganda.  I kid you not we were the only ones there that didn’t have a baby!  I couldn’t stop laughing when they asked for his name to fill in the form.  It said –‘Baby’s name’.   So from now on we will call him Baby Moses!

-          I had mentioned in passing to a friend that I would love to learn Luganda.  So today I took my first ‘lesson’.  I have much learn.  Now I sympathise with the Sudanese ladies.  Language learning is hard!
-          Tomorrow I head to the village to visit a friend.  Please pray for safe travels.  The roads are crazy here!

Thank you for all your prayers, support and love.  Hope you all have a blessed Easter weekend!

Photos will follow...

Friday, 23 March 2018

This week's photos

 My friend Stuart
 Friends in the village
 Funny faces at light school
 Han is waving to maama
 Irene in the village
 Joan in boarding with sparky the bear
 David in boarding
 The Winsa boys
 This picture makes me laugh so much.... So much laughter
 Visiting an old lady in the village
 Visiting technical institute
Zalika's house is complete.... The side on the left never did have a roof... Area for cooking etc..

Another week....another blog...


I hope this update finds you all well.

This week has been a bit different, as I have been busying myself with different things.
On Saturday we went back to Kayunga district to visit friends of Desana, deep in the bush.  Two of the board members for Desana were over from the states, so it was good to meet them and chat on the long car journey – as well as nap! It was lovely to see the people in the small settlement again.  One of the girls who I mentioned from my last visit, Irene, proudly handed me a bag of avocadoes.  I offered to buy them from here, but she was adamant that they should be a gift.  It is so humbling when people who have so little materially want to give and share.  We can learn so much from them.

On Sunday I went to visit some of the old RUHU kids in boarding school.  They were so appreciative and we laughed so much together.  They are such a sweet group of kids.  On Sunday I also went to visit Zalika’s family.  The house is now completely finished and Sunday was moving in day – so it was very appropriate that I had taken cake, ice cream and soda to celebrate.  

On Monday I visited three different boarding schools to pass on my love to old RUHU kids and encourage them with some goodie bags.  I am thankful that all of these schools allowed me to enter and spend a few minutes with the kids – some of these schools are so hard to get into and have the most ridiculous rules! I have some stories to tell when I get back.  

On Monday I was also able to visit the savings group that my friend Brian and I set up during my last trip.  It is encouraging to know that this group of around 12 people are meeting weekly to save money, have a bible study and learn some lessons in business.  

On Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, Uncle Isaac and I continued to visit RUHU kids in various boarding schools.  I feel like we have covered a fair few miles on the boda this week.  But praise God for keeping us safe.  The three boys at Winsa Primary could not have been sweeter and the Head teacher could not have been nicer.  I said to the boys that I wasn’t sure if the stuff that I had packed in their goodie bags was what they required...but one of the boys, Rama, said the bags were simply a miracle!  Bless him.  When I offered to pray for them before leaving, the boys were insistent that they pray for me.  These boys are so sweet, I thank God for them.    

I was able to spend time with the Sweazy’s beautiful children on Wednesday afternoon.  We had fun making masks together, and like the boys at the shelter, they too then proceeded to run around the compound pretending to be superheroes.  I got some lovely cuddles during the prayer meeting on Wednesday evening, at their house, from their lovely daughter Ava who sat on my knee.  This family are such a blessing to me.

Yesterday I had the privilege of attending an English class for south Sudanese refugees.  This was lead by a lovely American Lady, Dory, who is a member of the Sweazy’s church.  It was fascinating and the ladies could not have been more welcoming.  At the end of the class, one of the older ladies hugged me and said that I was her daughter.  Bless her.  So I now have a South Sudanese mama as well.  

Thank you so much to all of you who are faithfully continuing to remember me.  Thank you also to those of you who gave me financial gifts before I left – your money has been used this week to buy numerous loaves of bread, packets of biscuits, bars of soap, bags of sugar, bottles of juice and bits and bobs for the kids in boarding. It has also contributed towards petrol money as we have travelled a fair bit this week visiting all these different kids.  Thank you!

I feel I ramble and ramble, I would love to hear your news from home also and know if there is anything I can be praying for, for you guys.
Ruthie x


Friday, 16 March 2018

Photos from another week here on planet Uganda!

 Believe it or not.... It's a scorpion
 Boarding school visits
 Crazy faces with Zede
 Encouraging the children that they are all important and all winners
 Love this little boy, in a dress, so much
 Poppy feeling sad that she wasn't getting any cake
 Thank you for letting me cuddle your beautiful baby today Becca Kiwala.
Time for soda and cake
Trevor, Kasim and maama Trevor